There is one particular person.She believes that because she is the only manager in the department (not yours,she is from another department),she gets to be rude and narcissistic, and make her point like she fuckin’ rule the world.

She sends you an all caps emails for her request,did not start with a proper greeting, and says things that she do not even know shit about.She complaints about things without getting to know the substance first.She did this more than once.

p/s: Forgive me for the vulgar words.

Not that there is nothing to do.Its just Friday.So take a chill pill.

Oh.And that’s the new image Ramadhan put on me.For good,insya Allah.

Happy Weekend everyone!

Has been a while since i last updated.Honestly not so busy at work, but quite occupied at home.Or maybe just because i ran out of idea (uh oh).

I love writing.But the downside is that i am not so gifted with words, so that made my entry at least 2 paragraphs long.Which,contributes to a longer time when writing, which then made me look for the right time to write.Uh,whatever.

Anyway,i am feeling like making some progress updates on our latest endeavour.Or better known as a milestone (we should call it a milestone, right hubs?)

Before i start updating,maybe i should introduce the “project” to you.

Behold,our on-going,first time,biggest hole burnt in the pocket each month…

THE CRIB PROJECT (yeah i know i kinda sounds corny,but wth )

Ok technically,it is not really ours yet, since we are only going to sign the Sell&Purchase (aka S&P) document this Saturday,together with the deposit.But,hey,always one step closer The whole area is still CFO pending, so there is no rush to move in yet. Hopefully by the time our legal matters settle, it will be ready.Which i estimate maybe towards the end of the year.

There is one kind of feeling when you finally buy your own house.Maybe the good feeling of contentment.Alhamdulillah.Of course,angan2 sudah ada. Especially of what colour to paint the living,the kitchen,the bedrooms. Of what type of decor we would like to have and even what type of tree we want to plant at the garden.

The house is really not in an urban area,but looking at the good side,it will become a good retreat for our parents,if they feel like getting out of Kuala Lumpur.Hubby loves the area anyway,he is more to a peaceful,slow-paced lifestyle.

That is all for now peeps.Will try to keep updating on the progress

Cheerios.

I dont know why, but i am really happy to finally own a CROCS. Hubby bought one for me, after my endless request from him. Plus he always asks me to get a good and comfy pair of shoes for walking, so that adds up the reasons. Haha.

Lepas beli, kata hubby, “Lepas ni jangan complain sakit kaki lagi ye?”

I replied jovially,”Iyelah!”. Sambil tambah perisa with a hug.

I am really a sucker when it comes to wearing high heels when shopping or on a leisure trip.Eventhough i really admire the sexyness and i love the confidence a pair of high heels gives me, i am still not up to wearing it on a day out. End of the day, i will only end up complaining about the aches.

Tadaa! And i heart the accesories too, a Gryffindor badge and a flower!

Thanks bi! Muahs!

Tagged by Erin.Really felt happy after reading her post so i guess i am passing the happy pill to you too ;)

On the way back home from honeymooning at Pulau Redang

1. Sun,sea and sand vacation. Plus hubby.Or anyone whom i love the companion.
2. Good food with great people.
3. Having hubby around at home.
4. Cooking something and it turns out good. Especially when its a first try.
5. Honestly,shopping therapy
6. Spending time with my family.
7. Crafting – especially if i could have any tools,colour,paper,materials that i want! (which never happened yet.heheh)
8. Free cash!
9. When i count my blessings.
10. Travelling – so far i was very happy when i was in Paris I wish i could go there again.

I am passing the pill to:  All readers who wish to be happy today

Just got the results of my annual medical check up (sponsored by the company).All my life,only today i came to know that i am B Positive

Alhamdulillah,semua OK. Except for a slight difference on my hemoglobins shape.Tak paham sebenarnya tapi kata doc its not significant.Laily, leh explain tak? Heheh.

Reminds me of Raihan song.

Ingat lima perkara sebelum lima perkara:

Sihat sebelum sakit,
Kaya sebelum miskin,
Muda sebelum tua,
Lapang sebelum sempit,
Hidup sebelum mati…..

-Hadis Rasulullah S.A.W

Random snippets while waiting for the clock to reach the time that i have been waiting for, if you know what i mean.

1) I just finished reading this excellent book – A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini.Seriously.Gives me a whole different perspective of the war in Afghanistan. Enlightens my world affairs portion in my brains too. The story is not told in a historical book way, but more to the lives of 2 women of the country.Hubby bought this book actually,but i finished it first. Heheh.Silalah baca kalau perasaan nak baca buku datang. Berbaloi.

2) H1N1 frenzy. Aku takut.Ikhlas. Ya Allah lindungilah kami dan berikan kekuatan menghadapi dugaan mu. Anyway,besides of muffling yourself with the mask,do not forget the hand sanitizer.It can spread via skin contact too. Particularly your hands. Good thing now i do not have children to worry about yet. If not i will be a crazy paranoid mum.

3) We are one step closer to making the biggest purchase of our lives So now, i am starting the mag buying again.Starting our IMPIANA collection.Hehe. (Dulu, PENGANTIN). Once everything is ready, we will move in end of the year. Insya Allah.

4) Sedikit pendapat mengenai arwah Yasmin Ahmad (they are airing Yasmin Ahmad Dalam Kenangan at Astro now,by the way.Ch 101). I heard the “exposure” made about her past right after her death.I am not condoning cross-gender,but isn’t it wrong to humiliate a person,especially the deceased? That really frustrates me. Instead of focusing on her great works, people are still finding faults.Who are we to judge? Let God do his work.We,on the other hand, pray for His mercy and forgiveness, and try to be a better human.

End. Alaaa..lagi 20 minit.

The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.
The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference.
The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference.
And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.

(Oct. 1986) - Elie Wiesel

Of all the downside of living separately (during the weekdays) from my husband, there is one particular thing that i find worth appreciating.

It’s the fact that I always look forward to the day he arrives home,with his messy undid hair, worn-out-from-work looks and his ”Hunny, i am home” smile. It’s the fact that i get to feel excited with the anticipation of getting to spend another 2 days with him waking up beside me. It’s the fact that i get to do my favourite thing at the kitchen, cooking for him, eventhough sometimes it ends up a so-so cuisine.

Eventhough during the short time occassionally there may be some small arguments interlaced, but in the end, when it comes to Monday again, i always felt like hugging him tightly,never to let him go for the rest of the new weekdays.

2 days are never enough, spending quality time with him. But because its 2 days, it makes me appreciate his companionship even more.

p/s : Does not mean that we want to live like this forever, so look ahead, new plans are falling into place now. We will be updating. Heheh. And mind my emotional entry this time, coz i really miss him.

Oh Anak

Disclaimer: Belum,saya belum pregnant lagi. Insya Allah masanya akan tiba

As blogged previously,hubby and I are supposed to attend M.Nasir’s 1 Wajah Concert last July.However due to some unforeseen circumstances, the concert has been postponed to November.

I admit that i am not a huge follower of M.Nasir’s art, but recently i have been listening to his songs so that i can enjoy the concert better. After all there are a few of his songs that i have always loved, e.g Bonda,Mustika,Bagaikan Sakti,Sentuhan Listrikmu,etc.

Hubby introduced this charming song to me. Which i seriously think will be a lullaby for our children in the future

Music by M.Nasir, Lyrics by Allahyarham Loloq

Bintang-bintang ke syurga
Pertama percaya
Dua tak putus asa
Tiga terus terima
Empat tak berubah-ubah

Kelima rela berserah
Enam pentingkan yang sedia
Tujuh yang terpaling istimewa
Keikhlasanmu

Kalau ada bendanya
Mesti ada namanya
Kalau ada isinya
Mestilah ada bekasnya

Perlahan-lahan makan anak Sayang
Jangan sampai tercekik
Paku seluruh alam
Berhati-hati minum Sayang
Jangan sampai tersedak
Buih satu lautan

Perlahan-lahan jalan Sayang
Jangan sampai tersandung
Bendul gunung impian
Berhati-hati tatang alahai intan
Jangan sampai (kau) tertumpahkan
Setitis pun kasih sayang
(Kelak kau ‘kan hidup dalam
Kekesalan berpanjangan)

Tiada petua kemenangan
Setanding ketaatan
Kepada Sang Pemilik
Kehendak dan ikhtiar
Rindumu yang sebenar

Have you ever been blessed with this?

Apparently i just had.And i realized that these things happens very rarely, and it really can catch you by surprise, eventhough its just a small gesture.

I was in East Coast Mall last Tuesday,and right before heading to the parking lot, i had to pay for the parking fees.I was ready with my coins when i found out that the machine coin slot is blocked (ridiculous,it is). I only had RM10 notes in my wallet and i was struggling to find an RM1 note, which i know i did not have.

At last i decided to use my RM10, after considering to accept the change in coins (ridiculous again). Right before i slot in the note, the guy behind me offered to pay for me, with his own RM1.

“Takpe kak, saya bayarkan”, while slotting in the cash.

I turned to look at him, in my mind i figured, “Alamak,mesti fed up ni”.I wanted to exchange it with my coins, but he insisted on paying.

I was a bit serba-salah there, and as if he knows how i felt, he said ” Takpe kak,dulu orang buat mcam ni kat saya.Ni turn saya pulak”.

Awwww…That really moves me.

After saying my thanks, i left with a good feeling and thinking of continuing the circle of the random kindness act.After all, i admit that i have not done that in a while :S

If only humans are always that way, the world would definitely be a better place, aint it?

“Kindness in words creates confidence.Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.Kindness in giving creates love” – Lao Tzu