Its a beautiful Sunday morning and today i am up early. I have loads of things to do around the house, since i was not home last weekend. Laundry, vaccuuming the house, clean the toilet. Ni baru duk sorang ni, macam2 dah kena buat. Kalau rumah dah berisi macamana pulak..heheh.
Its about another 2 months to go before our wedding and now i find myself overwhelmed with lots of things to do. Basically we have settled the major services that we need – mak andam, photographer, cards. The only major thing left to do now is the marriage registration. If it could be done earlier, we would have. Only thing is that the authorization letter is only valid for three months. Plus the HIV test also has to be done at maximum 2 months before the nikah date (we are doing HIV test in Pahang).
Last weekend we were off to Nilai to get the craft supplies for my hantaran. Poor Emri has to follow me back and forth to the same shops just because i felt like i have not get enough. My goodness Nilai is superhot, i am not sure why. Maybe it is because of the 3 weeks drought that i came to knew when we reach my aunt’s place in Seremban. Nilai is a great place to get all wedding crafts, but make sure you go there prepared. Wear comfy shoes/sandals, put on your best tshirt and maybe a sunglasses too.
So far the preparation went well (minus the headache and some small arguments). Honestly i never had a dream wedding made up in my mind, but as i go with the flow, i pretty much created my own dream wedding on the way. The most important thing when you are planning is your budget. Once you have a budget, make sure you stick to it, and try to find the best bargain to get a quality and satisfactory services. If you decide to splurge somewhere, balance it out by moderating the other.
People may say that they are not ready to get married, for various reasons. But once you and your partner decides that it is time, be happy and plan ahead. Do not let money be a sole factor of determining it. Insya Allah, when you really want it, surprisingly you will find your way 🙂